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[quote=Anonymous]I used to. I would fantasize about the path not taken. Get angry at myself for making so many dumb/superficial decisions to make money, have stability, please others, even if it meant not being authentic to myself. I was pretty angry and regretful. What helped me? I just stopped thinking about it. You control your brain and you don’t have to believe your thoughts. I stopped obsessing over my career and most other regrets that I have about my youth being wasted on the younger version of me. I go to work. I give 85% effort most days. I’m a good employee. I started using all that free time in my head to think about what I wanted from life. I started hobbies and found a few that stuck after about three years of exploration and trial/error. I’m still in the same job but I never think about this anymore. And I’m a lot happier. I’ve been there. You’ll end up regretting this regret in 10 years when you’re 60 and wishing you could do 50 over ;)[/quote]
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