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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What does her dad suggest you do? [/quote]

Her dad is "looking forward to seeing us," hasn't made any preferences or objections known.  We have a cordial but not close relationship with him.  Since this is an anonymous forum and the family dynamics are pertinent, I'll share that he and my sister have always had a volatile relationship with a lot of yelling and drama, and I'm hoping they get through this in the best possible way for them and their children, whatever that ends up looking like.[/quote]
OMG OP you forgot your own story. What a troll thread.[/quote]

OP here... which part did I forget?

My elderly parents
My daughter
Me
Sister 
Sister's husband (the her dad I was referring to)
Sister's kids -- various genders

Is it because I wrote "her dad" instead of "his dad"?  The question I was answering said "her dad" and that's how I replied without thinking about it, because there are nieces as well as nephews.  Or was that not about my BIL?[/quote]

You sound awful.  I'd love to know your parenting mistakes because you are doing a whole lot of looking down on others.  I think everyone would be better off if you stay home.  Obviously your superiority is going to make it so you can't actually support your sister.  [/quote]

DP. I think you need to leave this thread.

The loss of a child is traumatic for the entire family. Most of all for the immediate family, but also for the extended family. Grief brings up a lot of feelings. OP is having feelings, that is normal. You know who is not grieving? The random DCUM posters responding to OP. Stop bullying a person going through a traumatic loss.[/quote]

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