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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH is similar. He is happy to accommodate any occasion, just clueless on how to do it / and what the expectations are. We resolved this early in our marriage with a [b]"family traditions" book[/b] that spells out what we do for each holiday (i.e. Mother's Day should be card, flowers, breakfast when I wake up, not a card at 5 pm after not acknowledging all day 🙄). For milestone birthdays, we plan together, no surprises. I think this just boils down to communication. Ideally verbally, but if your husband forgets every year, put it in writing. [/quote] This is such a good idea! OP, I'd be hurt too if I were you, but it sounds like your husband just doesn't have it in him to make plans for you. I agree with other PPs that you can still do something you enjoy. Happy Birthday![/quote]
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