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[quote=Anonymous]I quit Facebook after a chemical pregnancy and a second trimester loss too, for a few reasons. One, I had a whole blog posted about how some things you want don't happen right away, how sometimes we experience loss, but that the gain is that much sweeter later on. I had just one belly photo posted on Mother's Day. I had one comment about prenatal yoga. It's not like I was flaunting pregnancy, but I definitely didn't hide it. So after all that, I had a loss halfway through my pregnancy. Didn't really want others to speculate as to why I wasn't getting bigger or to make any further comments, or even to offer words of sympathy on my wall. So I promptly deactivated as soon as I found out the bad news. Now, I stay off because I don't want to hear others' pregnancy announcements. Even though I didn't suffer much in the way of IF beyond a few initial things that needed tweaking, I have still been through plenty. Like a PP, I managed to get myself back on the horse, so to speak, but have a long road yet with no guarantees, and I do get jealous of other people who are also pregnant because most could never appreciate the pain of what I have been through, and the underlying anger that probably won't abate until I hold a baby in my arms.[/quote]

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