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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know a woman who went through menopause and couldn't stand the sight or smell of her dh. She wasn't nice about it and he fought back with her. They got divorced. The dh told me that his ex had issues after their child was born, which seemed similar to how she ended up. I wonder if women who have bad pms and post partum anxiety/depression do worse with perimenopause and menopause? Like a pp, I would take the risks of hormone replacement over emotional agony.[/quote] This is exactly what happened to me. My ex lost her mind after our first kid. We had huge issues. She got on an anti depressant and life was good for the next 18 years until her mid-late 40s. The same person that showed up after the first kid, showed up again. Nothing I could say or do changed her from this person. I tried waiting it out too, but in the end she decided to blow up our lives and seek a divorce. She struggled with mental health after the divorce too. Her ire was not solely directed at me either. She ruined her relationship with her kids, her siblings, her parents, etc. She's since pulled herself up a little bit, but I still don't think she's made it through to the other side. [/quote]
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