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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know kids like this. Their parents let them quit everything they try. They never ask them to see it through, finish what they start, or stick with it. At the first hint of "I don't feel like it" they quit and that's that. Their kids do nothing after school and hate everything they try. [/quote]
I’m the poster from 9:56. I didn’t let my kids drop activities they didn’t like. They had to attend the classes I paid for. They did some of these activities for multiple years. But they still never liked the activities and don’t miss them.[/quote]

I think that's fair. You tried, and later on they can only blame themselves for not making more of the opportunities provided. But my friends ask their kids "do you want to do this?" and the answer is always "NO!" so the kids never try much and the few things they do try they quit halfway through. I rarely ask my kids if they want to try something I just sign them up then hype it up and that's worked out pretty well so far.[/quote]

+1 I am the parent, I don’t ask my kids if they want to try something. Of course, I know their personalities so I sign them for classes that I know they will enjoy but I don’t ask for their opinion. So far there are no complains.[/quote]

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