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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I don’t want to ruin my friendship because we have been best friends for over a decade but my bf isn’t going anywhere. I don’t want it to be a point of contention.

He has voiced that he finds her a bit dramatic at times and nosey but he likes her. [/quote]

I have been with Dh for over 20 years. I have 3 kids now. Dh and I have many separate friendships. I have friends I hang out with alone that Dh doesn’t especially care for and I’m glad to get alone time with. I have also gotten closer and drifted apart from some friends whose husbands either get alone or don’t get along.

One of my closest girlfriends had a boyfriend/husband who never liked Dh. He and i got along fine when they were dating. We are no longer friends a decade later. I have other friends whose husbands don’t really like or know one another and friendship is in tact. I get to see friend. Sometimes I see the husband. This is what happens when people start settling down.

I have a childhood friend whose boyfriend is definitely quirky and socially awkward. He is kind of rude and I don’t really care for him. I thought my friend could do a lot better. We don’t hang out anymore but it is because we both moved. You don’t need your friends to all think your boyfriend/husband is great as long as you do. Just from your description, I would kind of think your boyfriend is a dud. I wouldn’t say that in real life. Your best friend is close enough to you to say it.[/quote]

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