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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is foolish advice. Here’s some better advice: If you have to strategize how to get him to fulfill basic responsibilities and be your equal around the house, then dump him. Do it quickly. He won’t get better and no matter how clever your tactics are, he will find ways to thwart them because his laziness works for him. [/quote] Op. Don't strategize. Just make sure he does it from the beginning of the relationship. Even if he's really busy and stressed out and you're much better at clearing the table, have him take a stab at it. Don't fix it until the next day. My overall point is that if you let go either 1. He'll figure it out or 2. You'll feel more appreciated in the long run when he has a better idea of what you're handling. (Or 3, he would be institutionalized without you, but most high earners don't fit that description)[/quote]
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