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Reply to "Spouse just sits there when I do everything"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Any chance there is undiagnosed ADD? Depression? Are both of his parents functional? Is their home well run? What is his work history like? [/quote] Bingo, he does have depression and anxiety. And ASD. This came out all after marriage and kid. I've really lowered my expectations but sometimes it's all too much. [/quote] I'd be really pragmatic. Is it better for kids to live in one home with more economic resources? Then think of it as co-parenting under one roof. If there is enough money for 2 middle class homes and you think he could remain gainfully employed without coaching re: clothes and behavior, then think through splitting now. Otherwise, get emotional needs met by friends and extended family and hire help/outsource as you are able to. What you learn re: his challenges can also help your kid(s)...[/quote]
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