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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, you can. But if everything else is good, I'd simply tell him that if he does it one more time, you will leave the room/house/restaurant. Then if he does it again, leave for the day. Then give him one more chance.[/quote] WTF? No. No woman should sign up for life with a man who won't do things (especially such a small simple thing) unless threatened. No woman should be consigned to a life if constantly threatening "one more chance". OP, your name is part of your core identity. Your husband is sending you an implicit method that he gets to decide what that is not you. Also, women can break up with men for any reason or no reason at all. You can decide "today is Tuesday, I'm breaking up with you." The idea that we have to have a "good enough" reason rests on the notion that men are owed a relationship with a woman unless they do something bad enough. Obligatory relationships are not consensual. [/quote]
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