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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really hope you've given him a warning that this is so serious for you that you're considering ending the relationship over it. You do need to be that explicit with him. Having mentioned that it annoys you a few times now and then isn't enough, IMO. [/quote]

Yes, I've said it two or three times. "If you keep calling me that, it's is going to be the reason we break up." Things like that. I feel like I've been clear that I don't want to be called Ria, and that it's a big deal to me. I don't say it jokingly. [/quote]

I guess I find this so not believable that someone a) calls you a name you don't like, b) after you vehemently and seriously telling him to stop.

I think it's prob not necessarily disrespect but just cluelessness. Not reading the cues that it's not cute. My DH is a little like this. But he really isn't disrespectful. He just doesn't understand why people don't think like him on certain things.

I'll also say, if everything else is good (and sounds like it's not by your first part of the post), it would be strange to break up over this. This is something that would be mildly annoying to me but nothing more than that. [/quote]

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