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[quote=Anonymous]I’m really sorry. I have btdt, though not with a child who was that sick, and it really sucks to face the fact that the person who you thought was going to be your partner is not. I agree that you need to drop everything you’ve doing with your DH - your communication, expectations, job search help. He has shown you who he is and there is nothing you can do to change him and you’ll never be able to understand the reason for his behavior. I think your options are keep or downsize the house and hire an au pair to support you while you return to a higher paying job. Or sell the house and rent a one bedroom while supporting yourself with a part time job. Obviously you divorce and don’t expect anything from your ex. [/quote]
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