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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a man, and my text history is basically all to female friends: coworkers, parent friends, a couple women who also volunteer with our kid's activity. It's all friendly but none of it is flirty; hell, recently I was texting with some women about how much we love our spouses. I don't care about who my wife texts and she doesn't care about who I text, because we trust each other.[/quote]

Thanks to all for responses, really helps with perspective! I think trust has somehow become an issue for me - never has been in the past, but then I’ve never felt like he was distracted/absent in the past, the way he seems to be now.  If it were multiple female friends that would feel different, more casual I think.  But I brought DH coffee in bed this morning (per usual) and I could swear there was a furtive putting down of the phone and an unusually warm good morning, as if to compensate.  I have nothing concrete, no great increase in late night working or anything like that.  OTOH there’s also some weird stuff going on with his phone GPS - says he’s at home when I know he’s at work, or vice versa. Never puts him in any other place than home or work, no in transit or running errands.  Feel paranoid and hate it.  :-)[/quote]

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