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[quote=Anonymous]Guy here, married 20 years. Prior to meeting my wife, I had fallen into a pattern of dating that often included falling into the sack very early on. Sometime this resulted in a one night stand, sometimes in "relationships," all usually six months or less.

When I met my now wife, there was instant chemistry, but I made it clear that I thought we should wait three months before sleeping together. She agreed.  The chemistry was too great and we lasted seven weeks and slept together. Two years later we were married.

Cut to 20 years and lots of marital difficulties later...any my wife complains that "the man should always be the one who initiates because that's what men do", and me complaining that she should initiate some of the time because that helps me to feel desired. Anyway, now she complains that the fact that I didn't want to sleep with her immediately is evidence that were weren't really a match, and that I didn't find her attractive enough. Sometimes you can't win.

Anyway, I kind of lost the point of my post. New attraction is an amazing feeling, it's something I miss about being young and single.[/quote]

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