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[quote=Anonymous]We paid family when they did anything for/with my mom... some say.. gross she raised you, do it for free. But this is what I will say. 1. not everybody contributes equally. 2. It is an incentive to help 3. Otherwise we will pay someone else. 4. NOBODY cares or deserves and inheritance, it is my mom's/dad's money and any way we can use it to make their lives better we will. 5. Most of it will go to a nursing home anyway. 6. Not everybody has gas money to go see/help grandma, we all are not as successful as each other and some could really use the money. So we paid grandchildren/children/helpers to shovel their walk, fix things around the house, take her to lunch, take her to the dr, get her nails done, anything that made their life better. And guess what, they loved it, they saw people more often, and it was the best decision we ever made. [/quote]
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