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[quote=Anonymous]NO. You are not accommodating this family dynamic!!! This is the time to break it. Your husband has to visit the hospital all by himself and have an honest conversation with the doctors. Sometimes no one knows when a patient will pass away, but if a DNR was signed and she's on a ventilator, then maybe she doesn't have very long. It's unlikely she'll get better. What's absolutely clear is that you do not endanger your professional credibility, which you need to provide for yourself and your family, just because FIL, BIL and SIL are not stepping up! You call the BIL/SIL and tell them you cannot leave work, and it shouldn't be up to your husband to do this all by himself. You lecture your husband that he can't do this every day. [/quote]
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