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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah, you have to deal, eat the PTO. Maybe you could hire a driver for MWF or something. Please don’t ask your FIL to estimate when his wife will die so you can adjust your vacation plans. You have to just deal with this. Read your post back and imagine it’s about your parents, or about yourself. It’s pretty harsh. [/quote] ummm no, she does not need to just “deal with” being taken advantage of for an unknown amount of time. people hang on in acute care for a long time. it would be reasonable for her to give some notice but she doesn’t have to leave work early for months. OP just say “I can only leave work before 5 for another week. After that we need another solution - either your siblings step in, you find transport for your dad, or we hire childcare to do evening daycare pickup.” [/quote]
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