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[quote=Anonymous]I always appreciate the analogy that holding onto a grudge is like drinking poison daily, hoping it will hurt the other person. Feelings aren’t facts, too. You felt you had to go, made a choice, and now feel a grudge (resentful). The only person hurting is you. Yes, sometimes choices have unintended consequence, but you actually did have a choice. You’re still carrying this years later - for what? What does it serve you? It’s damaging your relationship, which maybe you choose to have or don’t, but if you’re holding it over their head, but remember they didn’t make your choice for you. Do you always do what people Want you to do? I know of very few people actually attending destination weddings under true duress eg. Knife or gunpoint, threats of harm, etc. Most of it is self imposed people pleasing [/quote]
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