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[quote=Anonymous]I just had a meeting with an elder law attorney and my mother. Attorney was great. My mom’s behavior was appalling. She was nasty. So hostile. It was all the stuff I’ve been seeing and dealing with, but having the attorney experience it too made something in me snap. I felt different by the end of the meeting. PP’s comment: “Too bad, so sad, not my problem” is exactly how I feel right now. Maybe I’ll come around. Maybe I’ll be able to reset at some point. But right now I can’t imagine that. I just want to get through the stuff that’s coming down the pike with minimal emotional investment. Maybe I can do what needs to be done without putting too much of myself into it. The “lead with love” stuff isn’t getting us anywhere anyway. Venting, that’s all. [/quote]
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