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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are moving in the direction of no marriages.[/quote]

That suggests the ones who marry, actually want to and know what they're doing.

I'm Gen X, and have been impressed with Gen Z overall. I'm sure there are lemons, as in any generation, but the ones I know seem to be smart and emotionally intelligent. [/quote]

Do you really think a 20 something "knows what they are doing" with regards to marrying at a young age?[/quote]

My spouse and I married when we were 20 somethings and we’re still married more than 40 years later. So, yes, some people that age do know what they are doing in terms of having found the right person and having good expectations and relationship skills. 
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You got lucky. You didn’t know what you were doing. If you were being honest you would say[b] its a lot of work to maintain a happy successful marriage[/b] and not always easy.

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DP who also got married in early 20’s and I disagree with the bolded statement.  Marriage is hard work… occasionally.  But it should absolutely NOT be “a lot of work” - I actually think it should feel easy.  (That’s not to say we never have arguments or disagreements but those are few and far between.). Only marry someone you are actually compatible with and truly commit to each other (ie don’t always be wondering if the grass is greener elsewhere).  Don’t score-keep.  Don’t dwell on every flaw of your partner rather than working on being the best partner YOU can be.

And above all just try to avoid drama.[/quote]

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