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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for the input, especially about DC leave! We’ll look into it. We do pay her on the books. She gets 3 weeks vacation and 10 days sick leave, none of which she has used this year. I imagine this is stressful for her and we want to be supportive while also maintaining appropriate boundaries. [/quote] She doesn't have a contagious disease so, pray tell, what are the "appropriate" boundaries for someone undergoing necessary surgery? [/quote] Do you really not understand that not all boundaries are physical?[/quote What other boundaries? The nanny has already told her why she needs the surgery so the only thing to ask is how she is getting along and NOT asking when she will be back to work. [/quote]
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