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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I just posted, but forgot to say the older generation in my family is like this too to some degree. If you had a fancy job then marrying in made you in the group and not an other. However, the ladies like to play other. So my mom didn't even get along well with her sister, but they loved to be mean girls when it came to cousin's wife and the brother's wife. Now the only living "relative" my mom has is her SIL, the one she despised. They talk a lot and my mom tries to be a mean girl with her and gossip about any others she can think of. It's all pretty weird.[/quote] For some people, the only way they know how to form alliances is to create 'outsiders'. They don't know how to make friends, be diplomatic (to everyone in general), and understand their own boundaries. It's an instinctive tribal impulse I think.[/quote]
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