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[quote=Anonymous]I was in a similar situation with a similar DH and family situation. I focused on my happiness and starting doing things that I really wanted to do that I had been putting off. It was invigorating and I felt alive again. I made some career moves, did fun things with my kids without inviting DH and didn't have to deal with feeling his constant resentment and bad mood when we were trying to have fun. I deepened my friendships and made some new ones and got some emotional connection with other humans. I was feeling great, but STBX, not so much. He called it quits after a petty disagreement. Maybe he didn't want me to be happy either? Currently, I'm in the process of separation so life sucks for now, but I think I'll be back to being happy again once the dust feels settles. Focus on making more money so you can support another household in case he leaves and you may want to lose those 10 pounds so you feel confident if you are back in the dating pool at some point.[/quote]
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