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[quote=Anonymous]One of the first thing my husband did was dump fellow cheater friends, friends that don’t respect their marriage or others. He learned to hang around men that mirror the values he respects and sees in himself. Guys are awful- women can be like this too—they can be alibis and encourage this stuff and it is normalized behavior in their friend groups. They aren’t judged for being a liar/cheater/adulterer. In fact, they trade war stories and encourage one another and laugh about it. The woman my spouse cheated with had the same type of friends: fellow cheaters. The “I have a right to happiness” everyone else be damned and it’s good for my kids to see me happy (while I go blow someone behind dad’s back). I’d be highly disturbed by those types of messages and it indicates his behavior and line of thinking has not changed. It’s like I tell my kids: birds of a feather flock together. Who you choose to hang out with matters. [/quote]
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