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[quote=Anonymous]I relate with this so much.  After many years of planning and doing all the legwork for our vacations, at a certain point, I just stopped.   I was done.  It wasn't just that I was doing all the things, it was also that there was a lot of complaining involved and after a while, I questioned why I spent the time, effort and money.

Then, without urging, at some point DH stepped up and started planning them.  And those were the best vacations because I didn't have to plan a thing!  But then those vacations usually involved DH blowing up like you did after decision fatigue and said he couldn't keep making all the decisions anymore.

Generally now, I'm perfectly happy not vacationing.  I realize that our family is not really made for that kind of thing.  Our kids can be a pain when they are traveling.  We just need simpler things.  They are as happy in our backyard or at home as they are on some extravagant vacation trip.  I can also accept that DH and I will one day vacation again when the kids are away at college.[/quote]

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