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[quote=Anonymous]I am in my mid forties and several people we know have parents who can no longer take care of themselves physically or financially. This causes strain between spouses, siblings, aunts and uncles and grandchildren. In my situation, my dad doesn’t want to go to a nursing home. The cost is secondary although we can pay for it. Instead, he lives at home and we have approximately 50 hours of home aid help. My mom and brother help take care of him the rest of the hours. If you cannot pay for it, meaning you have to go into debt, I would not pay for it. Does Germany not have government run nursing homes? This is a tough spot. Where would MIL live if they sold the house? Doesn’t sound like 700k home is some grand home. I would want to die in my own home too. Sorry, no real helpful responses.[/quote]
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