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[quote=Anonymous]I am relieved to hear your husband's uncle is attempting to become his brother's guardian. Clearly MIL is not able, for whatever reason, to make the best decisions for him. Tell your husband that this is your hill to die on. You refuse to take out loans, or impact your own retirement, or your children's college funding, for your in-laws' eldercare. You prefer to divorce. Tell him this emphatically, because this is a battle of wills and you need to win it. Do not pay anything. The discussion of what your husband wishes to do in his senior years is completely separate, given that finances, country and probably medical issues will be different... therefore you should refuse to get sidetracked by it. [/quote]
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