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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait so you moved away from your kids to remarry? The judge is not going to uproot the kids for a parent who abandoned them —the bar will be very high for abuse and neglect for them to be uprooted. I assume that’s why you don’t want to go through judges or lawyers.

The answer to your question is, you can offer to take them for the entire summer and then enroll them in school where you are. After they have been with you for six months it is considered their new jurisdiction but if you simply don’t return them in violation of a filed existing custody order it is kidnapping if it’s without his consent.[/quote]

I did not leave my ex to remarry.  I left with the kids.  When I fell on hard times my ex kept the kids under the guise of giving them back after a year so I could get back on my feet - but then filed for custody.  Covid also prolonged the time between his time getting them and is having our case heard.  We were separated for years before we got divorced.  [/quote]
You moved away with the kids before you ever got divorced and then fell into destitution. I think it was appropriate that he filed for custody and apparently the judge agreed. Now you want 100% custody again? Why is 50/50 not an option?[/quote]

If the ex lives far away, real 50% is not really possible. I think the best you can do is school year with one parent and vacations and summer with the other parent -- unless the kids aren't in school yet.[/quote]

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