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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As the person who's been labeled the problem in my family and "difficult to raise" I absolutely minimize contact with my parents.  They live in a fantasy world where I am always in the wrong because I don't play along and I'm not interested in that kind of b.s. as an adult.  I had no choice as a kid, but I'm done.  Maybe your daughter is done, too.

You should definitely talk to a therapist, but I'm guessing you'll bail when you start hearing stuff other than what you want to.[/quote]

this.  children who are identified as the "problem" in the family are usually just symptom bearers for the family's dysfunction.  Because you decide to not play along and don't follow the family "rules" you get scapegoated.

In my case, I was "supposed" to sit back and be quiet and watch as my family does one hurtful thing after another.  nope, no more.  boundaries are so important..  And I feel the same way, I only had them for support when I was a kid.  When I got married the sh*t surely hit the fan because I knew I had my own family now.[/quote]

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