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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A parent's love for their children is unconditional, yes. Not, however, when those children are adults. At that point, the kids and parents are equal and love must be earned on both sides.

If you want your mom to treat you as an equal, then you have to quit already with the childish rehashing of things that aren't fair or weren't fair when you were growing up.[b] I doubt that any mom sat there thinking up ways to make their kids lives miserable:  most of them did what you are now doing with your kids---the best you can with what you have at the time and where you are right then.[/b] [/quote]

Actually, I have a great mother/daughter relationship, but anyone can squirt a baby out.  I also doubt that many mothers spend time trying to make their kids lives miserable, but there are pleanty of selfish, neglectful, narcissistic parents out there.  The intent does not matter.[/quote]

Also, narcissism is commonly seen with mental disorders or illness (such as BPD or alcoholism). You can't have a fair, equitable relationship with a parent who is mentally unstable and refuses to seek help. It's sad, but sometimes it's best to cut your losses and accept that your parent will not change. At that point it is no longer about the past, but about the present and the future. [/quote]

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