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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Communicate more  [/quote]

This. You’re playing this game of chicken where you’re waiting to see how long she’ll go and not saying what you want. Stop.

How old are you and how long have you been married?[/quote]

NP. OP said exactly what he wanted and even rented the cabin after she failed to do so. Did you even read the post?[/quote]

I read the post. It seems that the first time in three weeks that it was discussed when OP woke up this morning. Why wasn’t it discussed yesterday or during the week? That’s the game of chicken OP has been playing.

Also, IF this is the case that the spouse didn’t plan, then this cannot be new behavior and OP knew it would go down like this. OP can keep doing the same but wanting a different outcome,  and find themself on Disappointment Mountain. Or OP could try something different like plan the damn trip, tell the spouse to be ready at x time. Or go alone. Or decide this is a deal breaker in your marriage.  But being pissed off or disappointed are non starters if you’re not trying something different.  [/quote]

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