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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]FWIW my HS friend went radio silent in 2022. I read into it that I was ghosted, unfollowed her on IG. Friends for a season etc etc. Got a text from her on a Friday this May - "Im so sorry I couldnt bear to tell you about this. [Older sister] died Wednesday. She was diagnosed in August. It was very fast. Its all so terrible." I say this kindly... its not about us.[/quote] First, I’m sorry for your friend. That sounds awful. As one of the PPs who was ghosted, I don’t think it’s about me. I don’t particularly care at this point, since I’d rather move on. While sometimes circumstances are what you describe, more often there is no concrete reason. People are allowed to feel hurt by things - those feelings may take on a different meaning in retrospect, but they’re real in the moment. To another PP - I saw a quote about being ghosted that has stuck with me: “the lack of closure is the closure.” Taking that one with me.[/quote]
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