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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I almost never initiate. Once, literally years ago, my now husband chastised me for initiating and told me he isn’t just “always ready to go” and I will never really get over it. I’ve told him that’s the reason that I don’t initiate and he was very upset, but I can’t change how it impacted my willingness to make a move. It made me feel awful. [/quote] Similar dynamic here. Once very early on in our marriage I excitedly told him that I had (somewhat uncharacteristically) ordered us a sex toy and massage oil to try out - and the way he responded was with disgust and made me feel ashamed. I’ve never been able to forget that feeling [/quote] I feel this! I don’t like rejection like you describe so almost never suggest anything new. It’s too painful. Knowing this, I don’t ever reject any advances (not that I’ve been asked to do anything really out there) even if it’s not something I want to do. [/quote]
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