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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just stop cooking. Tell your family to fend for themselves. And stop being a doormat and use your words in the meantime. [/quote] This, but without a DH and with my HS kids. (I divorced DH for reasons unrelated to his failure to share parenting.). I thought stopping making breakfasts and lunches would mean they would transition to doing it for themselves - Nope. I'm trying to do the same, but with grocery list/meal planning shopping. Also a big nope so far. I still do the things that are important to *me* like cooking dinner for us all a couple times a week, so we have some communal family time. Just be aware that other people in the family may not want to live at the standard you do. They are content to leave dishes in the sink, eat fritos or take out, etc. [/quote]
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