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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's always a terrible time for kids to get divorced, but sometimes it's still the best decision.  This seems like one of those times.  I'm sorry, OP.[/quote]

+1. I sometimes reframe things to think about what I’d want my daughter to do in a the same situation. Would I want her to accept her husband treating her this way? It’s surprising how much bad behavior I’ll put up with but would not want my daughter to. [/quote]

OP Yes - Exactly!! I have this thought on a daily basis. If my daughter was in my shoes, I would have told her to run in the other direction.

To the poster that says to split time in the house as I need time and space to heal, I've had this conversation with him. He understood and agreed to go into an office (he has one nearby that is an option)[b].However that lasted a few days and he's slipped back into his comfort zone of working from home nearly every day.[/b] It's so hard seeing him carry on in the house everyday as if nothing ever happened and his life is just great.

Although I've agreed to try to stay together for the kids, every day takes major effort and I feel this will never get better. [/quote]

I would throw a major fit about this. He trampled all over your wellbeing in a way that you will never recover from, and he can't be bothered to change his routine for your sake?

Also, and this is not a judgment because I've never been in your shoes, but how do you reconcile what you would want for your daughter with staying together for her sake? [/quote]

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