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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do you need to date when you have the kids?[/quote]
This. I would be devastated to see how much you are not putting the kids first already. [/quote]

Divorced parents are allowed to date!!![/quote]

NP. This is absolutely true! But OP needs to stop ever discussing dating with his ex.

To the OP: I think you unfortunately fell into thinking that since your ex talks up her own love life, apparently a LOT, it was fine for you to mention dating; but OP, I hope you've learned now:

Do not even mention if you're dating at all.

Don't try to date at times when you have the kids, even if a person you want to date says that's the only night she can go out with you. (If a woman really wants to go out with you, she will work with you to find a time when you don't have your kids. If she isn't willing to do that, she doesn't care enough about the fact you have kids, and that makes her a non-starter for a relationship anyway.)

As for the custody mess your ex wants to start, if she's serious and not just posturing about taking you to court, you need to spend on a good lawyer now and nip this fast and hard. You say your ex thinks you got a promotion -- well, did you? Is she right? Do you and she not have a formal, written, court-approved custody agreemennt and money arrangments, OP? If not, you should have had that, and must get it together ASAP. Be willing to pay for an experienced lawyer if you want to get your ex to stop her drama. And don't add to any drama by talking about dating, ever. Do not introduce your kids to dates, either--not until it is VERY serious; they will end up talking about it in front of their mom. [/quote]

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