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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are these kids? You are projecting adult mental issues on kids who are not even teens yet. Come on OP! Have you seen a doctor, therapist anyone or are you sitting at home blaming you DH's genes and giving up hope?[/quote] 7, 9, 11. I get therapy for myself to help deal with these challenges. I also have scheduled a consultation session on my own with a child therapist and then have not followed through because my husband was very much against it.[/quote] Why does he even have to know you went? If he is not willing to step up and take on more parenting responsibility, it's not okay for him to tell you you can't get your own help to manage it better. He sounds insecure and abusive. Telling you that you aren't allowed to attend an appointment of your own??? Or is he just saying he is against it, and because you're so afraid of angry men because of your childhood, you're taking it as "I can't go" when really he's just saying "I don't like the idea of you going". He can not like it all he wants, he doesnt control you. [/quote]
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