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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’re queer and it’s important to understand that means you can’t make statements like this because you aren’t a template for most humans. Most people are cisgender and heterosexual. This is also why gay men will say bi men are closeted bi and straight women will say that bi women are trying to be edgy or trying to get attention. It’s these straight people using themselves as a template for everyone else.[/quote]

People are more than who they want to sleep with. There's less difference between anyone than you seem to think. And, as I said, what we like evolves over time. Some men do identify as bisexual before they come out. Some women do say they're bisexual before they have the experience to determine if that's true. Some people identify as nonbinary before--or after--discovering they are trans. Some people become aromantic after experience. Some people become pansexual after being asexual. Etc.

All I'm asking you do is consider that identity and sexual preferences are moving targets, not static ones. We in the US are somewhat privileged enough (at least in some places) to live in a culture where we're allowed to choose, or to realize who we are. But identity isn't carved in stone. It can change and evolve and that's all part of the wonder. [/quote]

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