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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's possible to be direct without being tactless.[/quote] +1. It’s all in the delivery. It’s an art.[/quote] I'm pretty direct, but not rude. DCUM is actually so weird for me because people seem to be CONSTANTLY wondering about these little micro interactions and how to handle them, like there is one perfect chord they need to strike. I have not, to date, experienced any of these horrible social repercussions people seem to fear so deeply when I've just kind of come out with it. The pitbull example, I'd just be like, "sorry, not comfortable with the dog, maybe a restaurant is better for everyone?" I wouldn't waste much time thinking about it. If they're offended, whatever, but as we saw in that saga, many felt the same way. So...win for all? [/quote]
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