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[quote=Anonymous]All humans notice attractive people, at least people attractive to them. All humans like people they vibe with, regardless of gender.

Being married means you won’t act on those attractions because you entered into a romantic, legal, and financial partnership with one person. You were aware that marriage means that, right?

Your choice is to either stay committed to your marriage or act upon your attraction. It is not fair to your spouse to stay married and begin a relationship with a person behind their back. So if you choose to act upon your attraction, ask for a divorce and let your spouse find a partner that is attracted to them only. They didn’t get married to be in an open marriage that they aren’t even aware is open.

If you have sex with this person, you are exposing your spouse to stis and stds without their consent. It’s morally and ethically wrong to do that. They deserve to have their health risks known to them, and to be able to agree to take risks in that way. They don’t deserve to be subjected to whatever risks you are willing to take without even being aware they are in such a situation.

People fall out of love and change, that’s the human condition. Your spouse deserves the same chance to make choices about their life that you want.[/quote]

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