Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eh. Can you put a level on this?
1) Attraction - normal, human
2) Crush - normal, human
3) Full-blown distracting infatuation - happens but def means you need to throw yourself into your marriage and be careful around this person. It will pass, btw.
+1 here. If you have a crush that’s normal. As long as you forget about the person when they’re not around and you don’t chat “off hours” when you’re not at work.
How do you just turn it off?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Eh. Can you put a level on this?
1) Attraction - normal, human
2) Crush - normal, human
3) Full-blown distracting infatuation - happens but def means you need to throw yourself into your marriage and be careful around this person. It will pass, btw.
+1 here. If you have a crush that’s normal. As long as you forget about the person when they’re not around and you don’t chat “off hours” when you’re not at work.
Anonymous wrote:Divorce immediately
Anonymous wrote:Eh. Can you put a level on this?
1) Attraction - normal, human
2) Crush - normal, human
3) Full-blown distracting infatuation - happens but def means you need to throw yourself into your marriage and be careful around this person. It will pass, btw.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Happily married with kids for 16 years and find myself attracted to a married coworker. Why is this happening?
Its not about feeling attracted to someone but about removing yourself from any possible situations which may lead you to be emotionally or physically unfaithful.
Difficult to fight my feelings
Anonymous wrote:Because you are bored. It's not a referendum on your marriage. You need to be careful and not doing anything stupid or go in deep with your feelings. It will pass if you don't feed the beast and end up destroying your family, his family and your career.
Anonymous wrote:Is this coworker giving you attention, building up your ego? Do you find yourself finding ways to be around them and talk to them?
If the answer is yes, then back away far and fast. You’ll find yourself in an EA that makes matters much worse.
Avoid at all costs if you care about your marriage and want to keep your family intact.