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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are way too involved in his job search and life plans. You are talking about him as if he is your child, not your parent. If you don’t want him to live with you anymore, tell him that he needs to move out. He can get an apartment or whatever he can afford based on his current job, or get a better job if he wants a better place.

Or if you are happy with him living with you, just drop it about the job! Who cares about what job he has? [/quote]

It would be rare for someone his age to suddenly flex and move into management from hospitality.  Your tone does sound more appropriate for a new college grad who is coasting. He is at least middle aged, and probably had no idea how much he would like living with loving family members again.

You are acting like this is about career coaching or finances. It is so much deeper than that. How close (geographically) do you want your only father to be? His many more years do you think he will have in this planet?

I suggest you and he do some soul searching, to tease out your values and priorities. Then go to family counseling to discuss what you both seek from your relationship.[/quote]

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