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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH - same story. Already friends, close coworkers that liked to go out drinking. One woman having marriage issues, started drunkenly talking to my husband. They bonded over this intimate conversation, left the group for a drink on their own, he invited her up to his room to chat more, both totally drunk, ended up having sex.

It really is quite shocking how easily this can happen.  Read "not just friends" for info on boundaries - once you start to cross a few, especially combined with alcohol, it is a slippery slope straight into the hotel bed. [/quote]

Even if it doesn't turn physical, the whole thing can be very painful and destroy a marriage. [b]Having your spouse bond so completely with someone else in an intimate way is heartbreaking.[/quote][/b]

I have read that when a wife has an affair, the man is more concerned about the sex (was he better in bed, have a bigger penis?) but when a husband has an affair, the wife fears that he fell in love with another woman.  For me, both aspects are painful.  I have a difficult time separating sex from emotions.  [/quote]

Wonder if my husband worried about this. He seemed primarily concerned with appearances and the shame if his parents found out. Pathetic for a 45 year old man. And yes of course my lover was leagues better in bed.[/quote]

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