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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There absolutely is a name for this: DARVO. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victem and Offender. You can do it big scale or small scale. So easy to do. My DH did it to me yesterday. We were driving, he wasn't looking. I yelled "look out" when we were about to collide with another car. I yelled instinctively because I was scared we were about to get hit. He got upset that I yelled at him. He got defensive about his driving, and then turned it around to blame me for yelling at him. I actually expected to get an thank you for saving us from getting hit instead of defenfensive "OK, I'M SORRY!" The pattern is very easy to fall into.[/quote] I also apologize for yelling - see how he did that? He wasn't looking while driving and I apogized for yelling in fear.[/quote]
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