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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every time you see him beginning to spiral down this hole of defensiveness, disengage as quickly as possible telling him you'd rather talk about this topic later. And then, every time, bring it up the next day when he is calm starting in a place of curiosity by asking him questions about what he thinks happened and what could have made the interaction more productive. You need him to reflect on this and he only has a chance of being able to do this when he is calm.[/quote] How does this work if being asked about it make him go from calm to crazy again in seconds? I think his expectation is that a conversation that makes him uncomfortable should just never happen, full stop. [/quote]
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