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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait.  I totally get OP and think it is beyond rude to not ask her to join them.  If I was OP I would have said no, absolutely no way does that sound fun and would have loved to get some time alone, but I am introvert and hate hosting people at my home.[/quote]

You think it's rude they didn't ask her to join but also you would not have agreed to go if it was you?

I do not think it was rude for them not to invite OP. I think it might have been a bit insensitive to talk it up so much in front of her since she wasn't invited. I also think OP probably is feeling a bit more sensitive than usual because she just had a baby and might be feeling kind of lonely (I definitely felt lonely on my mat leave).

I think the solution to all of this is for OP to call up a friend and ask if they'd like to grab lunch and go to a museum, and maybe even hire a sitter or make arrangement with DH to facilitate it. The problem isn't really MIL/SIL. It's that OP feels cooped up at home and needs to get out.[/quote]

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