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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Good grief this is classic dating for a divorced parent. Slow. Busy on weekends. It is not good for the children to see a girlfriend here and a girlfriend there.

Is he older? How long's he been living in his own home?[/quote]

OP here:  he's in mid-40s, has been divorced for 5 years, and his kids are 10 & 12.  My friend has never been to his house but "knows" where he lives because he told her that he lives on X street in Y neighborhood when they first met.  They've now been dating about 7 months.  I've never met him because he's never available to hang out and between work and his kids he only has limited time to even see my friend who seems to be falling (or has fallen) in love with this guy (she talks about him constantly but doesn't have many details about his life -- for example, when she mentioned that he was driving a minivan, she couldn't answer any of my follow-up questions like does his ex-wife have two minivans so that she could loan him one; if the ex has a car and a minivan, why didn't he ask to borrow the car instead; or if the ex only has a minivan, why would she loan it to him while his car was being repaired and have nothing for herself to drive, etc.  The whole thing sounds weird to me but I could tell that my questions were starting to make my friend angry/resentful (she's never been married but would love to be and I've been happily married 10+ years -- so you can imagine the dynamics of our relationship) which is why I dropped the topic with her and posted to DCUM instead :-).        [/quote]

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