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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men affair down. The "lesser" women throw themselves at him in a way that makes him feel validated, desired, powerful, etc. They are eager to please him whether that's doing anything in bed or letting him call the boundaries and run the show. Also, in general, people who get involved with a married person likely have some sort of issue whether that's mental health, self worth, insecure, anxious attachment, previous abuse.[/quote]
Listen, I am sure this is true sometimes, but believing this is universally true is just a way for you to cope with uncomfortable truths.[/quote]
PP here and I didn't say it was universally true, but it happens often. So many stereotypes of the businessman the with secretary, the working dad with the nanny or housekeepers, the professor with the student, the mentor with the mentee - these don't just come from thin air.[/quote]
These are the ones you hear about because they blow up fantastically. I believe that more often what happens is two married people (who have done a better job taking care of themselves than their spouses and are in a midlife crisis and worn down by the work/family grind) find each other, breathe life back into each other, and eventually they have to end it because they don't want to break up their families and they are smart enough to know that in 10 years they'd be in the same place with each other. This happens a LOT.[/quote]

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