Anonymous wrote:Men affair down. The "lesser" women throw themselves at him in a way that makes him feel validated, desired, powerful, etc. They are eager to please him whether that's doing anything in bed or letting him call the boundaries and run the show. Also, in general, people who get involved with a married person likely have some sort of issue whether that's mental health, self worth, insecure, anxious attachment, previous abuse.

Anonymous wrote:As a rule of thumb, men cheat down, women cheat up.

Anonymous wrote:I literally found comedic relief once I found out who my DH had a ONS with during a midlife crisis. I mean, it didn't make it hurt any less and we had a crapton of work to do in both IC and MC, but I actually laughed out loud when I found out.

Anonymous wrote:But look at Brad Pitt…..

He left his wife, Jennifer Aniston for the younger, more beautiful Angelina Jolie.

Jenn was America’s Sweetheart 💘 in that cute, “Girl Next Door” sort of way but Angie was a sultry, sexy vixen-type of beauty.

Anonymous wrote:Just thinking of recent high profile affairs in the news - past and present - but Benjamin millipied, david Beckham, schwartzneggers housekeeper, Sergei brins wife….
All their aps were less attractive than their spouse. Is there a pattern? Is this always the way?

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Anonymous wrote:Just thinking of recent high profile affairs in the news - past and present - but Benjamin millipied, david Beckham, schwartzneggers housekeeper, Sergei brins wife….
All their aps were less attractive than their spouse. Is there a pattern? Is this always the way?

Sergi Brin's first wife, anne Woitcski, CEO of 23 and me, is far less attractive than his second wife who, I think, is his second x.

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Anonymous wrote:Men affair down. The "lesser" women throw themselves at him in a way that makes him feel validated, desired, powerful, etc. They are eager to please him whether that's doing anything in bed or letting him call the boundaries and run the show. Also, in general, people who get involved with a married person likely have some sort of issue whether that's mental health, self worth, insecure, anxious attachment, previous abuse.

Listen, I am sure this is true sometimes, but believing this is universally true is just a way for you to cope with uncomfortable truths.

PP here and I didn't say it was universally true, but it happens often. So many stereotypes of the businessman the with secretary, the working dad with the nanny or housekeepers, the professor with the student, the mentor with the mentee - these don't just come from thin air.

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Anonymous wrote:Men affair down. The "lesser" women throw themselves at him in a way that makes him feel validated, desired, powerful, etc. They are eager to please him whether that's doing anything in bed or letting him call the boundaries and run the show. Also, in general, people who get involved with a married person likely have some sort of issue whether that's mental health, self worth, insecure, anxious attachment, previous abuse.

Listen, I am sure this is true sometimes, but believing this is universally true is just a way for you to cope with uncomfortable truths.

PP here and I didn't say it was universally true, but it happens often. So many stereotypes of the businessman the with secretary, the working dad with the nanny or housekeepers, the professor with the student, the mentor with the mentee - these don't just come from thin air.

These are the ones you hear about because they blow up fantastically. I believe that more often what happens is two married people (who have done a better job taking care of themselves than their spouses and are in a midlife crisis and worn down by the work/family grind) find each other, breathe life back into each other, and eventually they have to end it because they don't want to break up their families and they are smart enough to know that in 10 years they'd be in the same place with each other. This happens a LOT.

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Anonymous wrote:Men affair down. The "lesser" women throw themselves at him in a way that makes him feel validated, desired, powerful, etc. They are eager to please him whether that's doing anything in bed or letting him call the boundaries and run the show. Also, in general, people who get involved with a married person likely have some sort of issue whether that's mental health, self worth, insecure, anxious attachment, previous abuse.

Listen, I am sure this is true sometimes, but believing this is universally true is just a way for you to cope with uncomfortable truths.

PP here and I didn't say it was universally true, but it happens often. So many stereotypes of the businessman the with secretary, the working dad with the nanny or housekeepers, the professor with the student, the mentor with the mentee - these don't just come from thin air.

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Anonymous wrote:Men affair down. The "lesser" women throw themselves at him in a way that makes him feel validated, desired, powerful, etc. They are eager to please him whether that's doing anything in bed or letting him call the boundaries and run the show. Also, in general, people who get involved with a married person likely have some sort of issue whether that's mental health, self worth, insecure, anxious attachment, previous abuse.

Listen, I am sure this is true sometimes, but believing this is universally true is just a way for you to cope with uncomfortable truths.

Anonymous wrote:Men affair down. The "lesser" women throw themselves at him in a way that makes him feel validated, desired, powerful, etc. They are eager to please him whether that's doing anything in bed or letting him call the boundaries and run the show. Also, in general, people who get involved with a married person likely have some sort of issue whether that's mental health, self worth, insecure, anxious attachment, previous abuse.