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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband isn't overweight really but he's gotten flabby since our son was born.  I understand the exhaustion of having a child and how hard it is to eat right and stay in shape, but I am simply not attracted to the way he looks anymore.  I, on the other hand, bounced right back after the baby; I lost all baby weight almost immediately and got back into really great shape.  I work out like crazy (at nights when, yes, sometimes I'd rather be sleeping or relaxing).  I eat very healthy.  I mean, I am super toned and look better than pre-baby.  I have tried everything to give him subtle hints.  I only buy healthy foods, but he simply eats too much.  I try to serve him correct portion sizes, but he'll just go back for seconds.  I tell him how great I feel when I work out, how much more energy I have, etc. and have suggested that we trade off nights of working out, or I offered if he prefers morning work outs, I could wake him up earlier.  He hasn't taken any hints at all.  I feel like it is just plain laziness.  He will sit around for 2 hours and play on the computer or read a book at night, but he won't make an effort to go out even for a 2 mile run.  It doesn't make sense to me.  Should I be more direct?  I don't want to be mean, but how do I address this? [b] I would never cheat on him, but I have to admit, I find myself fantasizing about other men who look better.[/b]  [/quote]

Women like you are the reason I do not recommend marriage for men.  Everything is me. me. me, me, me, me. [/quote]

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